National Family Day

September 22nd, 2008

Today is National Family Day, a day encouraging families to eat dinner together. From their site:

Family Day - A Day to Eat Dinner with Your ChildrenTM is a national movement to inform parents that the parental engagement fostered during frequent family dinners is an effective tool to help keep America’s kids substance free. Family Day reminds parents that Dinner Makes A Difference!

Celebrate Family Day on Monday, September 22, 2008!

Family Dinner 2006

I would add that it’s a great time to reflect on our days, share family news, re-connect with Trip after he has been working a commuting for most of the day. We eat rather late in our house. Trip doesn’t get home until around 7:20 in general, and doesn’t want to eat until he gets a minute to unwind in his office upstairs. As much as I love to bake, I really don’t enjoy thinking up, shopping for, preparing and cleaning up dinner every night. I think of the drudgery aspects of it. But when I plan, shop carefully, have all the ingredients, and start early with making dinner, everything goes so much smoother, and I enjoy it much more. Then dinner is a happier event, and then it’s easy to get up with Trip and quickly clean up the table, instead of just wanting to run the heck out of there as soon as possible. Lately, we’ve been writing the dinner plan on the calendar - the added bonus is that we know how old the leftovers are! A peaceful dinner where planning makes it sweeter can make or break my day. Keeping the kids drug free is a great goal, but dinner with the family is a priceless time for many more reasons than that. Trip was making fun of me as I took the photo above so I would have a picture memory of a regular dinner at our house. But I’m glad I have it.

Awning Curtain Tutorial

April 21st, 2008

Awning Curtains

This is my second time making awning curtains.  I came up with a really cheap way to hang them, and just walked down the street to look at some awnings my neighbors had hanging up.  When I made the original set a few years ago, I used outdoor canvas, which is quite stiff and weather resistant.  I edged them with nylon webbing, which was like a thick woven ribbon.  I wrapped it around the raw scalloped edges like bias tape.  I bought the fabric at JoAnn Fabrics last year (and didn’t make them until this year out of procrastination).  I don’t recall noticing that the fabric I chose for this set of awnings was outdoor fabric, but not quite the same heavy canvas that I used last time.  I’m hoping they hold up nicely.  This time around I chose to finish the edges with ball fringe, which I had seen on a house in Ocean Grove a few years ago, and it weathered very well.  In the future I may add some white  curtains to give us even more privacy on the side of the porch.  (We get a lot of foot traffic in the summer down our street).  Here’s what I did:

I measured my porch to find out the area I needed to cover.  My “curtain rod” is a length white plastic PVC pipe, held in place with C-clamps.  I don’t remember exactly what I paid, but just now online I found a 20 foot length of the PVC Pipe for $16.00!  The C-Clamps were also super cheap.   The fabric for all of the project (including coordinating fabric to re-cover my porch furniture cushions) cost $60.63 from JoAnn Fabrics - though you might do better using a coupon and shopping carefully.

I divided the separate distances by the width of the fabric, so I knew how many total lengths I would need.  Last time I used 15 inches as my hanging length, but this year I added 3 inches for a little more privacy, bringing it to 18″. For each section I added 2 inches for the rod pocket.

I cut all of the awning fabric into the 20″ lengths.  I was lucky that the east and west sides of my porch needed exactly the amount made when I stitched two lengths together and turned under a small hem on the side - I even left the selvage on one side!  I finished the joined edge by cutting one side of the raw seam edges, turning the other raw seam edge under to encase the other cut edge, pressing it and then stitching it flat.  This keeps the curtain rod from getting caught on the seam while pushing through the rod, and also makes the back side of the awning look neat.

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Cutting Scallops

After stitching the sides of the panels together, I hemmed the edges.  It doesn’t matter if you finish the top or bottom of the curtain first, but my next step was cutting the scallops.  I used a the lid from a plastic Rubbermaid food storage container.  I lined it up on the red stripes and the edge of my fabric, traced it with a pencil, and used a small rotary cutter on a cutting mat to cut them out.To finish the raw edge of the scallops, I placed the curtain right side up at my sewing machine, turned up a 1/4 inch of the raw edge, covered it with the ball fringe trim, and did a zig-zag stitch over the top of the trim edge.

Attaching Ball Fringe Trim Edge

This was so much easier than my old method of wrapping the edge with nylon webbing.  The raw edge is covered with trim and stitched down securely.  The back side is clean looking, and it was easy to guide the flexible trim around the curves as I sewed.  I don’t know how I managed to guess so well, but I wound up with just over a foot of ball trim left over.

Next, I made the rod pocket.  I turned under the two inches and pressed it. I recommend turning under just a hair more than 2 inches for the small amount of fabric lost on the turn, because you don’t want the rod pocket too tight.  This is very easy to do with a clear plastic ruler. Then I pressed 1/4 inch of the raw edge under so it would be easy to stitch it later.

Turn Under 2″Turn Under 1/4″

I don’t bother pinning (lazy), I just stitched down my rod pocket close to the edge of the turned under raw edge.

Stitch Rod Pocket

Next I put my curtain on the rod, and held it up to the C-Clamps which are still in place on my porch from the last time.  You’ll need one on each end and one in the center if the rod is long enough to dip from the weight of the curtain.  I marked a line on the bottom of my hem to feed the C-Clamp through.  Last time I just cut a line there and left it raw, and it lasted just fine for 2 years before the curtain was just too dirty to keep.  This time, I sewed a corded buttonhole to make it look more finished, and give it extra strength, especially since this fabric is so light weight.

Corded Buttonhole

The last step was installation.  It was a little cumbersome by myself, but can be managed.  I drilled holes for the C-Clamps during my first installation, and I left them there (can’t get lost!).  I simply unscrewed the top screw on the left most clamp, then (while holding the curtain up with my right hand), slid the clamp through the buttonhole, and screwed it back down.   Then I worked my way to the right.

Installation

Here is a more close-up shot:

Awning Curtains

The next day, I made the new covers for my porch furniture cushions.  I’m proud to say I picked the ottoman and the couch cushions out of the trash, going so far as to climb into a dumpster for the cushions, and only bringing them home after sniffing them very well!

Porch Furniture Cushion Covers

I am not planning a tutorial for these, but they were quite simple.  I just measured the size of the current covers, added a half inch for the seam allowance and cut my fabric.  I made cording out of a cotton cord covered with a straight 1.5″ strip of fabric (not bias).  I made the cording while stitching it down to the top and bottom sides of the cushions (using my zipper foot) with a 1/2 inch seam.  Due to my laziness - I don’t want to take a separate step and make the cording first, so I just took it slow while I stitched and kept pulling and holding the fabric into place as I worked.  Then I stitched the side piece around the cushion, stitching it to the top and bottom with that same zipper foot and 1/2 inch seam.  (You’ll need to make a perpendicular snip almost up to the seam when you turn the corners of for both the side piece and the cording in order to let it turn the corner nicely.)  This wrapped up what’s been a 3 week spring cleaning, and future house listing preparation.

  1. I cleaned and re-waterproofed and stained my back deck.
  2. I power washed my front porch (when the water company finally finished replacing the main on my street, breaking my water service, then repairing it by replacing my old galvanized pipe with a new copper pipe).  Several annoyed phone calls, 30 muddy boot prints and a dust cloud later, my porch was filthy, but my shower water pressure is fabulous now!
  3. I re-sealed my mahogany porch deck with Australian Timber Oil.  1/3 of the way through, the broom handle on my roller snapped, forcing me to work bent over the porch.   I also underestimated the amount of sealant I’d need, cheaply frugally buying the smaller sized can, and emptied the can with the front of the porch and steps still unfinished. This had me going back over the areas I applied first, wiping off the excess as instructed, but I wiped it back onto the sponge roller and applied it to the rest of the porch so I could squeeze out those last few yards of coverage.  I’m glad none of my neighbors were around to see me hopping around in a crouch like some kind of fume-woozy frog doing “wax on, wax off”!

It’s all lovely now, just in time for my youngest son’s 5th birthday party this weekend!  Now if I can only schedule some nice porch sitting weather for Sunday…

Full Steam Ahead!

March 6th, 2008

I haven’t been blogging - because we are getting ready to put the house up for sale!!! For anyone who has been reading this blog for a while, you would know what a delight this is for me. I have been wanting to move to Asheville since we visited in Spring of 2006. It’s taken a combination of hoping and dreaming on my part and gradually deteriorating satisfaction at work for Trip, along with what looks like a good timing financially because of the hot real estate market in our area. We had a realtor out to visit us and he gave us a nice short list of improvements to make. We have been hard at work since then. We repaired some pretty badly damaged sheet rock in our bedroom. Tomorrow my mom is coming to help me touch up paint in my kitchen. Very soon we need to replace out kitchen flooring with new linoleum. In addition to all of that activity, I have been able to put in many more hours working at professional organizing and computer lessons, so I am happy to have made some more money, too! We want to put the house on the market ASAP, and plan to move right after the boys finish school in June. I have so many things to figure out before we go. So I will try to keep up with Blogging, but I have to keep focused!

My Last Nerve is Pinched!

February 9th, 2008

Sometimes I have to tell the boys, “You are on my LAST NERVE!” I believe (following my Google-assisted self diagnosis) that I have a pinched nerve, as evidenced by the awful recurring shoulder pain with tingling and numbness in my right thumb and fingers. What this means is that for the last few days, I have been dependent on pain killers to get through the day. (not to the point that I have a problem) However, I do know that I need to get to my doctor soon. I don’t have the greatest relationship with my doctor, and I hate even thinking about going in to tell him about this - he just doesn’t come off as understanding or sympathetic, more skeptical and dismissive. And yes, I know that means I need to find a new doctor, but quite frankly I don’t have the energy.

Today I had a slow day, but managed to update several items on my website. All was long overdue. Trip went out to see No Country for Old Men for the 3rd Time! But I didn’t mind because I wanted to work on this blog and my website, and also because I am planning to go out next Friday for my girlfriend L___’s birthday, and now I can go out with the girls without guilt! Tomorrow we are going to Mom & Dad’s house for a Valentine’s Day dinner but I am excited because she buys presents for Valentine’s Day!

In other news, Trip and I also exchange gifts for Valentine’s Day. This has become a glorified excuse to get a few things we really wanted but didn’t get for Christmas. I can always come up with several things. This year I over-rode many longstanding wish list items for Wizard of Oz fabric! My usual M.O. is to see fabric like this and wish I could get it, but then wait too long and discover it is no longer available. This time I bought it immediately once I realized that I had envisioned the ultimate Wizard of Oz quilt! First I found the beginners’ Whirlwind pattern and Quilt Kit at Hancock’s of Paducah using the Under the Rainbow collection from Quilting Treasures. This collection features sepia toned images from Kansas before the tornado, including Professor Marvel, Dorothy on the farm, and large panels including my favorite: Elmira Gulch riding her bicycle and only Dorothy’s shoes are show in color. Then there is an Over the Rainbow Collection that features lots of images in bright color from Oz and Munchkin Land. Someone made a quilt for these fabrics, but it doesn’t have the nice big panels that Whirlwind has, so I am going to make my own! It will be the reverse of my Whirlwind Quilt, and it is going to be so beautiful!

Whirlwind Quilt.Color Version of Whirlwind Quilt.
I am so excited. Some of my fabric has already arrived, and it is just lovely. But I’m pretending I don’t have it yet, as Trip said I should just get it for myself as a gift from him for Valentine’s Day (unaware that I already got it!) Of course, I have several things that must be completed before I begin that project. But it’s something to dream about for now.

Valentine Party!

February 7th, 2008

Valentine CupcakesI had a lovely Valentine Party on Friday.

Here’s some highlights! Scrapbook TableI loved decorating the house with pink and hearts! My super budget decorating tip: I bought two pink vinyl tablecloths @ $1.69 each - and used the extra length to tie beautiful pink bows on my curtains! So bright and festive! I also bought a K & Company Die Cut heart set and they made lovely decorations over my table. I suspended a length of craft wire, which I use for holiday and party decorating, by hanging balloons, crepe paper, ribbon, etc. from it. Valentine CookiesValentine Cupcakes

It was all great except for a few things:

Several slacker friends who did not bother to show or call. I attribute this to my being a slacker friend who invited a few people a bit late and didn’t press for a response.
I didn’t quite have it all together as I envisioned it before I procrastinated the entire week away. Part procrastination, and part being laid low with my stupid arm, unable to move. I stayed up till 4am the night before making cookies.
I wound up having an awful spasm of pain towards the end of the party (actually an hour past the end). I was sitting on the floor with my girls while we shared silly YouTube videos but it had degenerated into us watching stupid videos that one friends son insisted that we watch. All of a sudden, the pain was unbearable, I was terrified to move my arm, tears streamed down my face. Anne Marie has been with me when this happened in the past. I slowly moved to sit in the living room, she scrambled around looking for my pain killer. Luckily Trip was due home right away. This happened yesterday, and I managed to get through the night after the pain killer kicked in.

Back from the Brink

January 24th, 2008

It’s a new year - and hopefully another year of gains (not weight), progress, and change. The last few weeks were a doozy. We had a houseful of sick folks. Christmas was the beginning. The last few days before Christmas are always busy ones, especially for a procrastinator! Not the best time to get sick. But there I was. Just a cold, but one that sapped my strength and made late night project finishing an impossibility. Then a week of recovery, and then BAM! We all took a turn or two being extra sick. I had the distinct (dis)pleasure of getting a whopping bad cold, and decided to treat myself with Mucinex to help me expel the congestion. Turns out I am allergic to something in that - which I discovered after taking a 12 hour extended release tablet… I started with a small case of hives around 10 o’clock. A little anti itch cream, and back to bed. At midnight it was a larger case - and upon searching the internet I read “If you are experiencing any of these SEVERE reactions: hives… seek immediate medical attention.” But I wasn’t quite sure - a little more anti itch cream, back to bed, and then LOTS of hives! I started getting scared I might have an asthma attack, and decided I’d hang out at the ER, just in case. When I explained my concern - they said I ought to check in - and I proceeded to wait, and wait and wait, during which time my hives steadily disappeared. By the time the doctor saw me I was almost all better. I came home exhausted but thankful for the prescription strength cough medicine with codeine - which gave me my first good nights’ sleep in what seemed like weeks! Then the kids and Trip all had a good turn of being sick. Elliot & Nathan missed a week of school, and I was the Head Nurse - giving out rounds of cough medicine, Vicks Vaporub on the chest, nebulizer treatments, steamy baths, soup, the whole bit. Finallly we are through that, and I’m feeling energized and hopeful now that all of that is behind us.

In other news, we finally bought my new computer. I was waiting till the new year so that it would be in the new business accounting year. I’m focused on income - and ready to make getting my business the first priority, along with getting ourselves and our house ready for a sale and a move. Asheville is still my dream - and I am finally mentally ready to push to make it happen. Updating my blog was a first step, and it’s time for me to get on with the rest…

20th High School Reunion Survivor!

November 26th, 2007

I’ve been so non-blogging lately. No good excuse - just the usual stuff. I really didn’t have anything earth shattering to share - but more importantly, (or I guess somewhat lamely, but more influentially) I have had too much that I felt MUST be done before I could sit and blog. And how long does it really take, anyway?!

I do have news to share. I have survived my 20th High School Reunion. Of course I said I would go - I had a good time at my 10th, plus I’m naturally curious. Whatever happened to ______ (fill in blanks)? Well, now I know - they got fat and/or grey and/or bald, some more so than others. As for myself, support hose, mustache removal and color job had me looking decent enough that I was feeling fine, if a little nervous. Well, a lot nervous on the way in, but once I got there, I was fine. Everyone was on their best behavior (until that alcohol started kicking in…), but still it was a nice night. And my kind former classmates all said I looked great, and exactly the same. (So the eye sight is going as well!)

Only two former classmates saw the need to bring up my former boozing days, one way or another. The first, I can’t remember exactly what was said or by whom, but I replied something like, “Oh well, we all have embarrassments in our past. I’m sure no one wants to go back to those days.” (Least of all me!) The second was a boozy lean and whisper into my ear, “Remember that night we fooled around at B____’s house? ….. I do.” This from a former classmate who was a) fat b) grey, c) balding, d) there with his 3rd wife. The correct answer is e) all of the above. Now, to be honest, those days are (blessedly) hazy at this point, however I do remember said night. I admitted it, and said so, but in a more standoffish way, and just in case you’re curious, it wasn’t anything too deep. (Unless alcohol has destroyed my memory more than I realize!). Anyway, I decided to feel a little flattered that my adolescent drunken promiscuity is remembered so fondly. At least someone has happy memories of those days! And it’s nice that I am able to laugh about it now.

Halloween

November 7th, 2007

It’s been a crazy last few weeks - no blogging to be had. But so much to share. This post is all about Halloween. My boys wouldn’t settle on a theme, but we went all out to make their costume visions a reality. Alex wanted to be a robot, and Trip was able to make the robot of his childhood dreams for Alex. Nathan (after changing his mind rather last minute from a Dragon) decided to be R2D2.
Me: “Really? R2D2? Well…….. ok.)”
Trip: “You can’t make R2D2.” (Oh NO HE DIDN’T!!!)
Me: (In Beevis and Butthead voice) “Are you threatening me?” “It’s ON! Oh yes I can! If my boy says he wants to be R2D2, then I’m making it!”

Paper Mache on Exercise BallLayer #4

Paper Mache on Exercise Ball… Layer 4

Play Hut Tube with Cardboard ShellThank You USPS!

Play Hut Tube…. Thank You US Postal Service!

Stiff Felt LayoutColor Adjustment…
Stiff Felt Layout on Felt Body… Color Correction
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Glue Guns for Glory!

My Three Sons!

For a minute, Elliot was thinking about being C3PO, and I probably would have done it, but I might have died trying. As it is, we learned something about letting freshly spray painted items fully dry OUTSIDE, so as not to kill one’s athsmatic wife… I almost bought Elliot’s costume, but after seeing it’s $39.99 price tag, I refused, and went on to make his costume for $4.60! Ha! I haven’t done an official tally, but I’m going to estimate we spent about $45 on the three of them.

After all that, the boys were not really all that into Trick or Treating. Nathan won 1st prize in our town’s Halloween Parade, but I learned yesterday Alex also would have won except they excluded him because Nathan had already won one for our family! Stupid Rule! Alex was mad that his costume was made of cardboard. Never mind the fact that it was tricked out with: a voice changer, ipod and speakers playing robot sounds and music, and color changing LED lights. That’s Alex…

It is now November 7th, and I’m ready to put all the Halloween stuff away. We just want to get a little video of our robots to save for posterity. I almost bought Elliot a real Woopie Cushion for sound effects on his costume until I remembered that one of the main reasons he chose this costume is out of his love for all rear-end related humor and his talent for making fart noises the old fashioned way! (he’s got three methods…) So ends another Halloween season. Next year I’m thinking we should just haunt our own house.

Antidote to Procrastination: Peaceful Progress

September 23rd, 2007

Hi! I recently had a little breakthrough - worked myself through a project I had procrastinated about for YEARS!! (and sad but true, it only took me 20 minutes to complete!!!…) I have re-read my David Allen book, Getting Things Done, and am trying to close what he calls “open loops” in order to focus more clearly on personal goals.

Several months ago, I found a website listing the causes of procrastination. I made a list of opposites to focus on, repeat to myself, and otherwise affirm regularly to help me overcome my problem. (Then after reading it several times, closed up the file, and forgot about it for a long time - while continuing to wallow in procrastination about many things.) Well, I’ve found my list, and I’m printing it out this time! Just in time! My friend asked me to share it with her once I found it, and I hope you will find it useful, too. (This in no way is meant to imply that I think any one of you is procrastinating, just sharing!)

I was trying to think of a more positive way to express this “Antidote.” I just looked it up, and read that the opposite of Procrastination is Urgency. I’m not really striving for that, I decided Peaceful Progress was my aim. Hope you are making peaceful progress.

Peaceful Progress

    Freedom & Clean living
    Fearlessness
    healthy self image
    Direction
    Good habits
    Encouragement
    Organization
    Focused Attention
    Thriving Family
    Certainty of Success
    Feeling powerful
    Comfort and Ease
    Well thought out goals and conscious motives
    Mindfulness
    Decisiveness
    Awareness
    Moral clarity
    Time management skills
    Ambition
    High tolerance despite setbacks
    Self-esteem
    High tolerance to stress
    Perception of the ease and logic of progress with effort
    Realistic knowledge of negative possibilities
    Positive attitude
    Great self-control skills
    Healthy study skills
    Self directed intent and action
    Appreciation
    Outward focus
    Self knowledge
    Certainty

As a side note, I just read an article about David Allen in the newest issue of Wired. They talked about David’s past drug use and stay in a mental hospital, and then his involvement with some sect. For me, the fact that he is able to successfully share such a powerful organizing tool, and move on from an obviously troubled time in his life speaks volumes. I only respect and admire him more!

What I Read this Summer

September 10th, 2007

I have abandoned my blog all summer! I got quite thrown off kilter this summer when we had a neighborhood tragedy. Our neighbor, an 8-year-old boy Trevon Taylor drowned in the ocean at the end of June. I was just devastated about it and had no interest or ability to continue my regular routine. My boys, who were daily playmates with Tre and his sister seemed to be completely unaffected, which disturbed me greatly. (Honestly, it still does). I have heard that kids their age are not able to grasp the finality or the reality of death - it is an abstract notion for them. Still, 3 weeks after this happened, Elliot’s Gameboy got put through the washing machine, and he had a total breakdown. Clearly that was not abstract… Still, life goes on. The boys just started back to school last week, and I have entered a new chapter in life in many ways. Nathan is now in Pre-K, and goes to school for 2 1/2 hours a day. That small daily break in my day, during which I have no true distractions (beyond those I manage to cook up myself) is full of promise for me. I have been exercising, catching up on several projects, (only 2,000 left to go!) and in general making good use of that time - in addition to almost always walking the kids to and from school (3 trips daily!). I was finishing my quarterly(ish) magazine purge, and made a list of what I had read in some depth. I read A LOT - and I rarely record it - but it is a big part of my life, and I thought I’d share a bit here…

  • Smithsonian March 2007 - Articles about Caravaggio, Archimedes Palimpsest (which is an ancient manuscript that was recycled at a monastery so that it was preserved “between the lines” of another ancient writing). George Henry Thomas - Civil War General; Poverty Tourism. July 2007 - The Casbah, “Genealogy is Bunk” basically saying we are all related eventually, so the obsession won’t lead anywhere that special… Mom & Dad Mitchell pass this magazine along to me after they finish. Always full of great history articles.
  • American Legacy The Journal of African American History & Culture Summer 2006 - Mabel Mercer; American Legacy The Journal of African American History & Culture Spring 2007 - Black America Photographs, Alabama Roots; American Legacy The Journal of African American History & Culture Summer 2007 - Sammy Davis Jr., Florence Mills. I received this magazine as a gift from my grandmother and I definitely want to continue it. I have plans to submit an article about my relative Father Norman DuKette.
  • Innovative Home Fall 2006 - just randomly acquired this magazine, but pretty interesting. I lean a little more old fashioned in my taste, although I like the eco friendly design ideas.
  • UU World: Summer 2007 - I am a Unitarian Universalist although I have not been much of a participant in my congregation. They are just a little far for me to want to hike out there regularly, although I love their programs, and really feel as if I have found a faith I can call my own.
  • Mary Engelbreit Home Companion: June/July 2007 - I subscribe to this magazine and LOVE it.  It is full of beautiful homes, inspiring artists and craft ideas.
  • Mothering: January/February 2007, March April 2007, May June 2007. I credit this magazine with helping to shape my ideas as a new mother, and giving me authorative backup as I followed my instincts in raising our kids naturally.
  • Family Fun: April 2007, May 2007, June 2007, July /August 2007: I love this magazine for all the fun kids crafts.
  • Consumer Reports: July 2007 Mom & Dad Mitchell share this magazine with us when they finish.
  • Cottage Living: July/August 2007 - I subscribe to this magazine so I can drool over other people’s houses.
  • Martha Stewart Living: June 2007 - I love Martha and her great ideas for organizing, crafts and decorating.
  • Time: I subscribe and read it weekly. It makes me feel a little more informed about the US and world around me. But I find it annoying when I tell Trip about stuff I read in here and he says, “Yeah, I saw that on Digg…”

That’s all (current as of Early August!) I think all that reading helps keep me informed, stretches out my brain a bit, and I usually pull lots of pages for my files for crafts, party ideas, decorating, recipes etc. Actually, I think that letting go of subscriptions would be one of the best ways for me to save time, although just scaling back on my non-quality reading would be great.  That’s all for now - I’m happy to be back to blogging, and rid of this list.

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