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Dreams do come true! If you’ve been reading this blog back in time a bit, you can read about m

The skinny…

In case anyone has missed various postings and/or real conversations on the phone or in person, I

How to Repair a Tear: Mending Trip's Jeans with an invisible patch

I have a love/hate relationship with my mending pile. It’s a great feeling clearing that pile,

 

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November 29, 2009 in Family, Personal, Sewing/Crafts

Dreams do come true! If you’ve been reading this blog back in time a bit, you can read about me being quite done with our old situation, wanting to move to Asheville, wanting to adopt a girl so that I can have the joy of raising a daughter and having a little girl in our family, wishing Trip would be home more, not quite sure how or when all of this would happen…  Now it’s November – we moved this June, rented in Mars Hill, NC for a month and a half, closed on July 30th on our new house. Now we are all settled in to our new home in Asheville. Foster Adopt classes start in January! Trip has a new job he loves, plus has been helping me get my business all set up. I’m so happy to be here in this town, and in this place in life. I’m just grateful for everything. I’m not going crazy writing right now. Here’s a brief update:

In this last week I:

  • Sewed and mailed Laura’s baby quilt. This was a big step for me as for the past several years I was completely unable to make any more baby girl things without having a little breakdown about it. Have enough fabric leftovers to make some more stuff…
  • Made the design for my new cabinet to hold my fabric bins. They will be assembled from pre-drilled white laminate – I’ve been mulling this over for quite a white but I’m sure they are going to be just right.
  • Briefly mourned the loss of Nathan’s Praying Mantis (her time had come…) but then somehow got over my squeamishness and positioned her body so that she can be mounted in a Riker box. It’s kind of like bug taxidermy. One word – Ick!  This spring we will see how many of her 300 eggs hatch…
  • Made French Toast for brunch this morning (with fake breakfast sausage and strawberries w/ whipped cream!) Only a mimosa would have made it more perfect…
  • Took a trip with the boys to the WNC Nature Center this afternoon. We have a family membership, so the visit was paid for. Had a nice little hike on the Trillium Glen Trail. Browsed through the gift shop where the boys all carried on about stuff they wanted and I snuck back in and bought them for Christmas presents (and on the member discount!)
  • Cleaned out the guest room tonight. It was the repository for all manner of junk but now is company ready, and hopefully before too long it will be the home to our foster daughter.
Guest Room

Guest Room

Guest Room

Guest Room

Lately I’m:

  • Learning how to use Twitter – in the middle of reading The Twitter Book
  • Stressing about my weight and need to fix it before I go home for my 40th Birthday party!
  • Really behind in getting my business cards, brochure & portfolio set up
  • Taking it all one day at a time!

Now I MUST clean my office/craft room. It’s a total wreck. See here:

Nothing says "Professional Organizer" like this, right!

Nothing says "Professional Organizer" like this, right!

Gotta get to work!

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The skinny…

March 8, 2009 in Family, Personal, Work

In case anyone has missed various postings and/or real conversations on the phone or in person, I’m writing an update… In typical fashion, I delayed dealing with Christmas cards, only mailed out about 50, and then things got a little crazy – and I felt I couldn’t mail the card out with out a newsletter, so they are sitting in a guilt inducing pile in my desk. I have no idea when I’ll find the time to write a real newsletter, but someday an old card will arrive in your box postmarked from Asheville, NC!

In January, Trip was laid off from his job at SmartMoney magazine, where he worked in NYC for the last 10 years. The magazine industry is suffering, and jobs will be difficult if not impossible to find in his field, never mind the realities of this economy. For the first 7 years, Trip’s job used to offer a particular perk that made commuting 5 hours a day nearly bearable – 4 days off at the end of each month to relax and enjoy family time, besides weekends and vacation. Then the job changed, and although he received a good pay increase, we lost that extra time off. I think that was when the commute and the job in general started to wear on Trip, but there were just no decent paying alternatives so there he stayed. The layoff came with a decent severance, which is a great blessing to us now, as it will enable us to make big changes in our lives.

I had read about Asheville, and thought it sounded like my kind of place: green and lush, progressive, diverse, warmer, with a lot of organic farms and large community of people who support them. We visited 3 years ago, and I fell in love! I didn’t even take a lot of pictures, because I was so sure we would be back soon. The cost of living is lower than NJ, housing is affordable, and while their job market is tough, it is a good place for entrepreneurs, with several networks of people working to promote businesses who work in digital media – which is a big part of what Trip and I do.

We plan to make a living at our own business, Memory Cottage, doing professional organizing, and photo archiving, and family history research. (We are doing what we love so the money will follow – and I think we are off to a decent start.) I go to clients’ homes, or they send their photos to me, and the work is always different. Sometimes I clean out an office, a garage, a room. Some of the work involves researching at the archives and online. Trip handles photo scanning and retouching, and eventually we hope to do movie making.

What was a far-off dream for me is now in the process of becoming reality, but we have to sell our house first. We are very fortunate that this is an time ideal for marketing a home 3 blocks from the beach. I always have several lists going but I took another hard look at everything around the house and noted every little thing that needed doing. Then I went through the house again and looked at each thing with a critical eye – purging mercilessly. (Thanks to Flylady, I have been de-cluttering for years, so this was not quite as scary as it might have been.) The boys’ school is holding a Rummage Sale next Saturday, coincidentally the day before we have scheduled our open house, so they got a nice load of stuff from us. Trip and I have been working at a mad pace to get the house done, cleaning, repairing, painting, etc. This last load of snow was a surprise, but this weekend’s warmth gave me the chance I was hoping for to some of the outside work. Just this morning we got our first call from a realtor, and although I had no intention of showing someone this house till next weekend, I’ll be running around again this morning trying to get it in as good a shape as I can manage.

That’s what’s going on over here. It is scary to go through so many changes at once, but thrilling to be propelled towards a new life. After so many years when Trip came home at 7:30, 8 or 9pm, having him home is WONDERFUL. He has time to work out (lost 15 pounds and counting!), he’s been making dinner, we eat earlier, we have so much more time together as a family. And work has been coming in steadily and slowly increasing. Of course, leaving our home for the last 10 years is sad, because we will be moving away from our dear family and many close friends. That’s one of the hardest things to contemplate, but we really feel that this move will be the best thing for our family. We are excited and hopeful, and looking forward to the future.

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How to Repair a Tear: Mending Trip's Jeans with an invisible patch

February 17, 2009 in Personal

I have a love/hate relationship with my mending pile. It’s a great feeling clearing that pile, leaves my sewing room looking less junky, knowing I saved some money (I’m, shall we say, frugal about some things). BUT, I always procrastinate about doing the mending – I don’t know what the problem is, but some things can sit there in the mending pile for YEARS! I had a pair of pants Elliot ripped the knee out of, and by the time I fixed them, they were already too small for his younger brother Alex! (They are now Nathan’s pants…)

I just read an article about how some Shoe Repair shops are thriving in our slumping economy. I’ve done some jobs for people mending clothes, and I’m thinking I might get a few more now! But in case you are a do-it-yourselfer, I am writing this post about How-To Repair a Tear. When I worked at Royce Sewing Center and got schooled on all manner of sewing skills, one of my jobs was to teach customers how to use their new machines, and Mending was one of the demonstration stitches.

These jeans have been in the pile for a long time. When I gave them back to Trip, he had no recollection of them. But at one point he wore them so much that the butt had worn completely through, leaving two big tears.
Ripped Jeans

Here’s what to do:
Find a material that coordinates with the one you are fixing. I always have an old pair of jeans saved for this purpose. I happened to have some black canvas in my stash for repairing these black jeans. (more on this below…)

Turn the jeans so you can place your patch over the holes on the inside of the jeans. I doubled the canvas for extra strength, because besides the ripped parts, the fabric around them is weak from wear. Pull your torn fabric so that the grain line is as straight as you can make it. (You might want to press it flat if your fabric is very frayed. Pin the patch in place and stitch once around the perimeter to hold it.
Stitch the patch in place

You might want to use some kind of iron-on interfacing, or stitch witchery to help hold the patch in place and give the patch extra strength, but make sure it won’t show on the outside. Then turn the jeans to stitch from the outside.

Place your presser foot just above and to the left of the left edge of the tear. In order to make the repair less noticeable, make your stitches follow the lines of the denim. Then make a straight stitch down just a little past the tear, move your needle 1/16th of an inch to the right, then make a straight stitch in reverse, stopping near wear you started stitching, but not on the exact same spot, continue moving the needle 1/16th to the right each time you change directions, and do this until you have completely covered the torn area.

Stitch forward and backward over the tear

My sewing machine: Bernina 1530 (love, love, LOVE this machine!) has a computer and a special “mending foot”. When you select the mending stitch and use the laser eye mending foot, it stitches a knot in place, then stitches forward until you press the reverse button, moves right a milimeter, stitches back to the start, moves right a milimeter, stitches back to the end point, until it has covered a patch 10 mm wide with stitches (staggering the edges so they don’t show), then stitches a knot in place. (I tried filming this for the blog, but it’s too boring to watch.) My machine memorizes that selection so you can do that same stitch over and over until the hole is covered, but you can do it very easily by hand as well.

The result?
Mended jeans

(Fabric Stash Backstory: I bought the black canvas above with the intent of making a sleeping bag and camping set for the anatomically correct boy doll I sewed for Elliot when he was one year old. (Go ahead and laugh.) He never took to the doll, who now sits on a shelf with other retired stuffed animals. Naturally, I still have the patterns for said project…)
Jeremiah the Boy Doll

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National Family Day

September 22, 2008 in Family, Personal

Today is National Family Day, a day encouraging families to eat dinner together. From their site:

Family Day – A Day to Eat Dinner with Your ChildrenTM is a national movement to inform parents that the parental engagement fostered during frequent family dinners is an effective tool to help keep America’s kids substance free. Family Day reminds parents that Dinner Makes A Difference!

Celebrate Family Day on Monday, September 22, 2008!

Family Dinner 2006

I would add that it’s a great time to reflect on our days, share family news, re-connect with Trip after he has been working a commuting for most of the day. We eat rather late in our house. Trip doesn’t get home until around 7:20 in general, and doesn’t want to eat until he gets a minute to unwind in his office upstairs. As much as I love to bake, I really don’t enjoy thinking up, shopping for, preparing and cleaning up dinner every night. I think of the drudgery aspects of it. But when I plan, shop carefully, have all the ingredients, and start early with making dinner, everything goes so much smoother, and I enjoy it much more. Then dinner is a happier event, and then it’s easy to get up with Trip and quickly clean up the table, instead of just wanting to run the heck out of there as soon as possible. Lately, we’ve been writing the dinner plan on the calendar – the added bonus is that we know how old the leftovers are! A peaceful dinner where planning makes it sweeter can make or break my day. Keeping the kids drug free is a great goal, but dinner with the family is a priceless time for many more reasons than that. Trip was making fun of me as I took the photo above so I would have a picture memory of a regular dinner at our house. But I’m glad I have it.

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Awning Curtain Tutorial

April 21, 2008 in Personal, Sewing/Crafts

Awning Curtains

This is my second time making awning curtains.  I came up with a really cheap way to hang them, and just walked down the street to look at some awnings my neighbors had hanging up.  When I made the original set a few years ago, I used outdoor canvas, which is quite stiff and weather resistant.  I edged them with nylon webbing, which was like a thick woven ribbon.  I wrapped it around the raw scalloped edges like bias tape.  I bought the fabric at JoAnn Fabrics last year (and didn’t make them until this year out of procrastination).  I don’t recall noticing that the fabric I chose for this set of awnings was outdoor fabric, but not quite the same heavy canvas that I used last time.  I’m hoping they hold up nicely.  This time around I chose to finish the edges with ball fringe, which I had seen on a house in Ocean Grove a few years ago, and it weathered very well.  In the future I may add some white  curtains to give us even more privacy on the side of the porch.  (We get a lot of foot traffic in the summer down our street).  Here’s what I did:

I measured my porch to find out the area I needed to cover.  My “curtain rod” is a length white plastic PVC pipe, held in place with C-clamps.  I don’t remember exactly what I paid, but just now online I found a 20 foot length of the PVC Pipe for $16.00!  The C-Clamps were also super cheap.   The fabric for all of the project (including coordinating fabric to re-cover my porch furniture cushions) cost $60.63 from JoAnn Fabrics – though you might do better using a coupon and shopping carefully.

I divided the separate distances by the width of the fabric, so I knew how many total lengths I would need.  Last time I used 15 inches as my hanging length, but this year I added 3 inches for a little more privacy, bringing it to 18″. For each section I added 2 inches for the rod pocket.

I cut all of the awning fabric into the 20″ lengths.  I was lucky that the east and west sides of my porch needed exactly the amount made when I stitched two lengths together and turned under a small hem on the side – I even left the selvage on one side!  I finished the joined edge by cutting one side of the raw seam edges, turning the other raw seam edge under to encase the other cut edge, pressing it and then stitching it flat.  This keeps the curtain rod from getting caught on the seam while pushing through the rod, and also makes the back side of the awning look neat.

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Cutting Scallops

After stitching the sides of the panels together, I hemmed the edges.  It doesn’t matter if you finish the top or bottom of the curtain first, but my next step was cutting the scallops.  I used a the lid from a plastic Rubbermaid food storage container.  I lined it up on the red stripes and the edge of my fabric, traced it with a pencil, and used a small rotary cutter on a cutting mat to cut them out.To finish the raw edge of the scallops, I placed the curtain right side up at my sewing machine, turned up a 1/4 inch of the raw edge, covered it with the ball fringe trim, and did a zig-zag stitch over the top of the trim edge.

Attaching Ball Fringe Trim Edge

This was so much easier than my old method of wrapping the edge with nylon webbing.  The raw edge is covered with trim and stitched down securely.  The back side is clean looking, and it was easy to guide the flexible trim around the curves as I sewed.  I don’t know how I managed to guess so well, but I wound up with just over a foot of ball trim left over.

Next, I made the rod pocket.  I turned under the two inches and pressed it. I recommend turning under just a hair more than 2 inches for the small amount of fabric lost on the turn, because you don’t want the rod pocket too tight.  This is very easy to do with a clear plastic ruler. Then I pressed 1/4 inch of the raw edge under so it would be easy to stitch it later.

Turn Under 2″Turn Under 1/4″

I don’t bother pinning (lazy), I just stitched down my rod pocket close to the edge of the turned under raw edge.

Stitch Rod Pocket

Next I put my curtain on the rod, and held it up to the C-Clamps which are still in place on my porch from the last time.  You’ll need one on each end and one in the center if the rod is long enough to dip from the weight of the curtain.  I marked a line on the bottom of my hem to feed the C-Clamp through.  Last time I just cut a line there and left it raw, and it lasted just fine for 2 years before the curtain was just too dirty to keep.  This time, I sewed a corded buttonhole to make it look more finished, and give it extra strength, especially since this fabric is so light weight.

Corded Buttonhole

The last step was installation.  It was a little cumbersome by myself, but can be managed.  I drilled holes for the C-Clamps during my first installation, and I left them there (can’t get lost!).  I simply unscrewed the top screw on the left most clamp, then (while holding the curtain up with my right hand), slid the clamp through the buttonhole, and screwed it back down.   Then I worked my way to the right.

Installation

Here is a more close-up shot:

Awning Curtains

The next day, I made the new covers for my porch furniture cushions.  I’m proud to say I picked the ottoman and the couch cushions out of the trash, going so far as to climb into a dumpster for the cushions, and only bringing them home after sniffing them very well!

Porch Furniture Cushion Covers

I am not planning a tutorial for these, but they were quite simple.  I just measured the size of the current covers, added a half inch for the seam allowance and cut my fabric.  I made cording out of a cotton cord covered with a straight 1.5″ strip of fabric (not bias).  I made the cording while stitching it down to the top and bottom sides of the cushions (using my zipper foot) with a 1/2 inch seam.  Due to my laziness – I don’t want to take a separate step and make the cording first, so I just took it slow while I stitched and kept pulling and holding the fabric into place as I worked.  Then I stitched the side piece around the cushion, stitching it to the top and bottom with that same zipper foot and 1/2 inch seam.  (You’ll need to make a perpendicular snip almost up to the seam when you turn the corners of for both the side piece and the cording in order to let it turn the corner nicely.)  This wrapped up what’s been a 3 week spring cleaning, and future house listing preparation.

  1. I cleaned and re-waterproofed and stained my back deck.
  2. I power washed my front porch (when the water company finally finished replacing the main on my street, breaking my water service, then repairing it by replacing my old galvanized pipe with a new copper pipe).  Several annoyed phone calls, 30 muddy boot prints and a dust cloud later, my porch was filthy, but my shower water pressure is fabulous now!
  3. I re-sealed my mahogany porch deck with Australian Timber Oil.  1/3 of the way through, the broom handle on my roller snapped, forcing me to work bent over the porch.   I also underestimated the amount of sealant I’d need, cheaply frugally buying the smaller sized can, and emptied the can with the front of the porch and steps still unfinished. This had me going back over the areas I applied first, wiping off the excess as instructed, but I wiped it back onto the sponge roller and applied it to the rest of the porch so I could squeeze out those last few yards of coverage.  I’m glad none of my neighbors were around to see me hopping around in a crouch like some kind of fume-woozy frog doing “wax on, wax off”!

It’s all lovely now, just in time for my youngest son’s 5th birthday party this weekend!  Now if I can only schedule some nice porch sitting weather for Sunday…

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Full Steam Ahead!

March 6, 2008 in Family, Personal

I haven’t been blogging – because we are getting ready to put the house up for sale!!! For anyone who has been reading this blog for a while, you would know what a delight this is for me. I have been wanting to move to Asheville since we visited in Spring of 2006. It’s taken a combination of hoping and dreaming on my part and gradually deteriorating satisfaction at work for Trip, along with what looks like a good timing financially because of the hot real estate market in our area. We had a realtor out to visit us and he gave us a nice short list of improvements to make. We have been hard at work since then. We repaired some pretty badly damaged sheet rock in our bedroom. Tomorrow my mom is coming to help me touch up paint in my kitchen. Very soon we need to replace out kitchen flooring with new linoleum. In addition to all of that activity, I have been able to put in many more hours working at professional organizing and computer lessons, so I am happy to have made some more money, too! We want to put the house on the market ASAP, and plan to move right after the boys finish school in June. I have so many things to figure out before we go. So I will try to keep up with Blogging, but I have to keep focused!

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My Last Nerve is Pinched!

February 9, 2008 in Personal

Sometimes I have to tell the boys, “You are on my LAST NERVE!” I believe (following my Google-assisted self diagnosis) that I have a pinched nerve, as evidenced by the awful recurring shoulder pain with tingling and numbness in my right thumb and fingers. What this means is that for the last few days, I have been dependent on pain killers to get through the day. (not to the point that I have a problem) However, I do know that I need to get to my doctor soon. I don’t have the greatest relationship with my doctor, and I hate even thinking about going in to tell him about this – he just doesn’t come off as understanding or sympathetic, more skeptical and dismissive. And yes, I know that means I need to find a new doctor, but quite frankly I don’t have the energy.

Today I had a slow day, but managed to update several items on my website. All was long overdue. Trip went out to see No Country for Old Men for the 3rd Time! But I didn’t mind because I wanted to work on this blog and my website, and also because I am planning to go out next Friday for my girlfriend L___’s birthday, and now I can go out with the girls without guilt! Tomorrow we are going to Mom & Dad’s house for a Valentine’s Day dinner but I am excited because she buys presents for Valentine’s Day!

In other news, Trip and I also exchange gifts for Valentine’s Day. This has become a glorified excuse to get a few things we really wanted but didn’t get for Christmas. I can always come up with several things. This year I over-rode many longstanding wish list items for Wizard of Oz fabric! My usual M.O. is to see fabric like this and wish I could get it, but then wait too long and discover it is no longer available. This time I bought it immediately once I realized that I had envisioned the ultimate Wizard of Oz quilt! First I found the beginners’ Whirlwind pattern and Quilt Kit at Hancock’s of Paducah using the Under the Rainbow collection from Quilting Treasures. This collection features sepia toned images from Kansas before the tornado, including Professor Marvel, Dorothy on the farm, and large panels including my favorite: Elmira Gulch riding her bicycle and only Dorothy’s shoes are show in color. Then there is an Over the Rainbow Collection that features lots of images in bright color from Oz and Munchkin Land. Someone made a quilt for these fabrics, but it doesn’t have the nice big panels that Whirlwind has, so I am going to make my own! It will be the reverse of my Whirlwind Quilt, and it is going to be so beautiful!

Whirlwind Quilt.Color Version of Whirlwind Quilt.
I am so excited. Some of my fabric has already arrived, and it is just lovely. But I’m pretending I don’t have it yet, as Trip said I should just get it for myself as a gift from him for Valentine’s Day (unaware that I already got it!) Of course, I have several things that must be completed before I begin that project. But it’s something to dream about for now.

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Valentine Party!

February 7, 2008 in Baking, Personal, Sewing/Crafts

Valentine CupcakesI had a lovely Valentine Party on Friday.

Here’s some highlights! Scrapbook TableI loved decorating the house with pink and hearts! My super budget decorating tip: I bought two pink vinyl tablecloths @ $1.69 each – and used the extra length to tie beautiful pink bows on my curtains! So bright and festive! I also bought a K & Company Die Cut heart set and they made lovely decorations over my table. I suspended a length of craft wire, which I use for holiday and party decorating, by hanging balloons, crepe paper, ribbon, etc. from it. Valentine CookiesValentine Cupcakes

It was all great except for a few things:

Several slacker friends who did not bother to show or call. I attribute this to my being a slacker friend who invited a few people a bit late and didn’t press for a response.
I didn’t quite have it all together as I envisioned it before I procrastinated the entire week away. Part procrastination, and part being laid low with my stupid arm, unable to move. I stayed up till 4am the night before making cookies.
I wound up having an awful spasm of pain towards the end of the party (actually an hour past the end). I was sitting on the floor with my girls while we shared silly YouTube videos but it had degenerated into us watching stupid videos that one friends son insisted that we watch. All of a sudden, the pain was unbearable, I was terrified to move my arm, tears streamed down my face. Anne Marie has been with me when this happened in the past. I slowly moved to sit in the living room, she scrambled around looking for my pain killer. Luckily Trip was due home right away. This happened yesterday, and I managed to get through the night after the pain killer kicked in.

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Back from the Brink

January 24, 2008 in Family, Personal

It’s a new year – and hopefully another year of gains (not weight), progress, and change. The last few weeks were a doozy. We had a houseful of sick folks. Christmas was the beginning. The last few days before Christmas are always busy ones, especially for a procrastinator! Not the best time to get sick. But there I was. Just a cold, but one that sapped my strength and made late night project finishing an impossibility. Then a week of recovery, and then BAM! We all took a turn or two being extra sick. I had the distinct (dis)pleasure of getting a whopping bad cold, and decided to treat myself with Mucinex to help me expel the congestion. Turns out I am allergic to something in that – which I discovered after taking a 12 hour extended release tablet… I started with a small case of hives around 10 o’clock. A little anti itch cream, and back to bed. At midnight it was a larger case – and upon searching the internet I read “If you are experiencing any of these SEVERE reactions: hives… seek immediate medical attention.” But I wasn’t quite sure – a little more anti itch cream, back to bed, and then LOTS of hives! I started getting scared I might have an asthma attack, and decided I’d hang out at the ER, just in case. When I explained my concern – they said I ought to check in – and I proceeded to wait, and wait and wait, during which time my hives steadily disappeared. By the time the doctor saw me I was almost all better. I came home exhausted but thankful for the prescription strength cough medicine with codeine – which gave me my first good nights’ sleep in what seemed like weeks! Then the kids and Trip all had a good turn of being sick. Elliot & Nathan missed a week of school, and I was the Head Nurse – giving out rounds of cough medicine, Vicks Vaporub on the chest, nebulizer treatments, steamy baths, soup, the whole bit. Finallly we are through that, and I’m feeling energized and hopeful now that all of that is behind us.

In other news, we finally bought my new computer. I was waiting till the new year so that it would be in the new business accounting year. I’m focused on income – and ready to make getting my business the first priority, along with getting ourselves and our house ready for a sale and a move. Asheville is still my dream – and I am finally mentally ready to push to make it happen. Updating my blog was a first step, and it’s time for me to get on with the rest…

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20th High School Reunion Survivor!

November 26, 2007 in Personal

I’ve been so non-blogging lately. No good excuse – just the usual stuff. I really didn’t have anything earth shattering to share – but more importantly, (or I guess somewhat lamely, but more influentially) I have had too much that I felt MUST be done before I could sit and blog. And how long does it really take, anyway?!

I do have news to share. I have survived my 20th High School Reunion. Of course I said I would go – I had a good time at my 10th, plus I’m naturally curious. Whatever happened to ______ (fill in blanks)? Well, now I know – they got fat and/or grey and/or bald, some more so than others (as I have!). As for myself, support hose, mustache removal and color job had me looking decent enough that I was feeling fine, if a little nervous. Well, a lot nervous on the way in, but once I got there, I was fine. Everyone was on their best behavior (until that alcohol started kicking in…), but still it was a nice night. And my kind former classmates all said I looked great, and exactly the same. (So the eye sight is going as well!) 

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